We women all our lives have been told on how to act, how to speak, how to dress, and basically, our life has been on someone else’s opinions on what or who or how we must be.

Most of our life is spent on being a good daughter, good sister, good wife, good mother, and everything else in between.

But can you tell me honestly how much of that time is spent purely selfishly on you and only you? How much of that time have you spent on taking care of yourself in any way possible be it your body, mind, soul, or on that dream job or career that you have always wanted?

How much have you spent your time, energy and hard-work have you spent on doing something that others expect you to?

Focusing on others expectations of how your life should be even if it’s your own parents, your friends, your relatives, your colleagues or even your neighbors is not going to bring you complete happiness in your life even if they honestly think that is what’s best for you.

At the end of the day, only you know what’s best for you and what will bring you complete happiness in life. Happiness is what we are all chasing after as in the true purpose of living. Take other’s opinions or advice as it is just advice or merely a suggestion.

Being SELFISH and prioritizing you before anyone else is the key to achieving anything in life.

SELFISH WOMEN is someone who puts her needs and wants first and takes better care of herself. She constantly seeks to improve herself in all areas of her life and actively hustles towards her dream life. She creates her dream life while also being kind and empathic towards others and is on a life journey of no regrets.


Now at this point, I’m sure you are all wondering what this crazy girl is even talking about telling you to be selfish.

Well, then let me tell you this. First of all and this is the most important thing you need to understand is that Being Selfish is NOT being self-centered.

NO!!! It means that putting yourself first and doing things that benefit you makes you so much more confident, self-assured, and happy all around. When you truly 100% believe in yourself, you become more aligned with your inner self or voice and when that happens you naturally are able to enrich and empower the people around you.

My name is Swetha Lakshmi, an 21-year-old obsessed with finding ways to grow myself in every area of my life and also help others to do the same.  

I help young female Students and Entrepreneurs become Successful by cultivating the right mindset, be confident and manage their time well to live life on their own terms.

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